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Birthday Wishes for a Grandson

Your grandson doesn't need a speech. He needs a few lines that sound like you. Pick a wish below and add something he'll recognize, like the name of your fishing spot or the cereal he only eats at your house.

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By age

First birthday: Write down one moment from his first year so he can read it later. The face he made at his first lemon slice. The game that got a laugh every single time.

Childhood: Write about what he's into right now, whether that's beetles or baseball cards. Keep it short enough to read to him in one go.

16th birthday: He wants room. Praise something you've noticed and leave the instructions out.

18th birthday: Tell him plans can change, and that's fine. Offer your help without asking him to prove anything first.

21st birthday and beyond: Talk to him like the adult he is. Don't guess how he'll celebrate or what comes next.

Written from grandma / grandpa

From Grandma: A routine you share makes the card yours: the Thursday phone call, the show you both watch, the cookies he steals off the cooling rack. Write "I" and sign with the name he uses for you.

From Grandpa: Mention something you do together, or say plainly what you admire about him. You're allowed to say it without wrapping it in a joke.

From both: Write "we" and pick a memory you were both there for. If there's room, each of you can add a line.

20 wishes to copy

#1
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Happy first birthday, kiddo. You've made a whole year of ordinary afternoons a lot more interesting.

#2
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Hope the cake's huge and your turn at the dishes is short. Love, Grandpa.

#3
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Sixteen. I like how you think things through, even when you land somewhere different from me.

#4
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Happy 18th. You don't need every answer yet. Call me whenever.

#5
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Twenty-one suits you. Spend today with the people you can be yourself around.

#6
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I still laugh about [the summer at the lake]. Let's make another story like that this year.

#7
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Grandpa still holds the family record for [the biggest fish]. Come try to beat it. Happy birthday.

#8
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Happy birthday to my toughest opponent at [our kitchen-table game]. I want a rematch. After cake.

#9
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I saw you help [your cousin] when nobody asked. That's the kind of thing I brag to my friends about.

#10
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Another year taller. I've given up buying your shoes ahead of time.

#11
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Sending a birthday hug from [where you live]. Consider this card the first installment.

#12
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You used to hold my hand to cross the street. Now you're the one telling me to look both ways. Happy birthday, from Grandpa.

#13
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Hope this year surprises you, even if it's only a new favorite taco place.

#14
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Good week or bad week, you're welcome here. Happy birthday.

#15
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Grandma's birthday promise: I'll hear the whole story before I give my opinion. Keep this card as evidence.

#16
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You're never an interruption. Your visits are what I tell the neighbors about for days.

#17
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We got lucky with you. Happy birthday from both of us.

#18
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Remember [the day we fixed the old bike]? You were so pleased you'd worked out the chain yourself. I hope you get that feeling a lot this year.

#19
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I love you, kid. That's the whole card.

#20
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Pancakes are on me next Sunday. Bring your appetite, and bring [your best friend] too.

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